User talk:Susie De Paolis

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Susie De Paolis, good luck, and have fun. PamD 22:55, 20 January 2017 (UTC)[reply]

PamD 22:55, 20 January 2017 (UTC)[reply]

Managing a conflict of interest

Hello, Susie De Paolis. We welcome your contributions, but if you have an external relationship with the people, places, or things you have written about in the article Charles Paget, 8th Marquess of Anglesey, you may have a conflict of interest (COI). Editors with a COI may be unduly influenced by their connection to the topic, and it is important when editing Wikipedia articles that such connections be completely transparent. See the conflict of interest guideline and FAQ for organizations for more information. In particular, we ask that you please:

avoid editing or creating articles related to you and your family, friends, school, company, club, or organization, as well as any competing companies' projects or products;
instead, you are encouraged to propose changes on the Talk pages of affected article(s) (see the {{request edit}} template);
when discussing affected articles, disclose your COI (see WP:DISCLOSE);
avoid linking to the Wikipedia article or to the website of your organization in other articles (see WP:SPAM);
exercise great caution so that you do not violate Wikipedia's content policies.

In addition, you must disclose your employer, client, and affiliation with respect to any contribution for which you receive, or expect to receive, compensation (see WP:PAID).

Please take a few moments to read and review Wikipedia's policies regarding conflicts of interest, especially those pertaining to neutral point of view, sourcing and autobiographies. Thank you. PamD 22:56, 20 January 2017 (UTC)[reply]

Replying to your note on my talk page: If you are, as you assert, Susan De Paolis, then you should not edit the article about your husband. If you can provide a reference to a reliable independent published source which mentions your marriage, then please do so at Talk:Charles Paget, 8th Marquess of Anglesey so that another editor can decide whether to include this information. If you were married in 2015 it seems surprising that the 2017 Who's Who does not mention this, and I could find no references in a general search online. Wikipedia is particularly careful not to add unsourced information about living people, referred to as "BLP" information (Biographies of Living People). PamD 23:08, 20 January 2017 (UTC)[reply]

January 2017

Hello, and welcome to Wikipedia. We welcome and appreciate your contributions, but it appears you have written or added to an article about yourself. Creating an autobiography is strongly discouraged – see our guideline on writing autobiographies. If you create such an article, it may be deleted. If what you have done in life is genuinely notable and can be verified according to our policy for articles about living people, someone else will probably create an article about you sooner or later (see Wikipedians with articles). If you wish to add to an existing article about yourself, please propose the changes on its talk page. Please understand that this is an encyclopedia and not a personal web space or social networking site. If your article has already been deleted, please see: Why was my page deleted?, and if you feel the deletion was an error, please discuss it with the deleting administrator. Thank you. PamD 23:09, 20 January 2017 (UTC)[reply]

The above is a standard message about writing autobiographies: the article Wikipedia:Autobiography might be useful to you, as it includes a section "Problems in an article about you". PamD 23:12, 20 January 2017 (UTC)[reply]

8th Marquess of Anglesey

Dear Pam thank you for your communication.

You are absolutely right that the entries have not yet been changed in Who's Who or Burke's Peerage. We are dealing with this. I see you have deleted my entry again. My husband and I much appreciate your diligence, especially as we have recently discovered that there were major changes made recently to the entry entitled Marquess of Anglesey which were complete fabrication and nonsense. you can check these yourself in this history of this entry.

if you would like proof of my marriage to the 8th Marquess i would be happy to send you a photocopy of my passport, or indeed my marriage certificate. We were married 13th June 2015 at the Mayfair Library, the Registry Office in Mayfair. You are able to check records there online.. but unfortunately at the moment only up until 2014. If you give me your email address i will send this as an attachment.

To further reassure that this is genuine, can i suggest that you contact the National Trust in Plas Newydd who will be able to confirm our marriage status. Once you are reassured, we would be very grateful if you would re-insert the fact of our marriage into his entry. Many thanks SDeP

request edit

Dear Sirs My husband is Charles Paget, the 8th Marquess of Anglesey. we married on 13th June 2015 at the Mayfair Library, London W1, and we would like to add this information to his entry on Wikipedia. Unfortunately, as far as i can see the notice of our marriage does not appear on the registry of the Mayfair Library as records are only listed up to 2014. And neither Who's Who or Burke's Peerage list our marriage but we are dealing with this.

i am able to send you a copy of our Marriage Certificate, if you require proof. and/or indeed my passport, showing my married name. Please can you let me know what you need in order to update the information on my husband's entry.

many thanks

Susie Anglesey previously Susie De Paolis

Adding a note here will not make any difference - no-one much is likely to be watching your user talk page. If you want to address someone in particular, as in the post above directed at me, please use {{ping}}, eg {{ping|PamD}}, which alerts them whether or not they are "Watching" your talk page.

Please read the section at Wikipedia:Autobiography#Problems_in_an_article_about_you which explains the procedure if you are unhappy with content about yourself. As you can see there, the first place to ask for help is the article's talk page, and failing that the help page or a specified email address. Until then editors are likely to continue to remove totally unsourced sensitive information about living people, such as a statement about a marriage. PamD 17:22, 2 April 2018 (UTC)[reply]

PS Please sign your posts using ~~~~, as this adds the date as well which can be useful for other people reading the page. Thanks.