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AUTHOR: Tamunobere Edmond Vincent
BOOK TITLE:" A Good Face To The Matter"
IMIRINGI AND THE APERETIA HISTORICAL THEORY
[edit]One would seat back and ponder what's in a name with less substantiated back up history to support the claims of an existing place pupported to have been in existence since 1400's. please we need facts on wiki
The Road We Trudge Upon
[edit]PREAMBLE
Beyond the illussionary smokescreens
The intersections between truth and wisdom is a rare path only few have made good use of; although closely interwoven, truth functions as a product of wisdom.. Yet non is truly independent of the other. Perhaps pythagoras had a few winnings, which couldn't have been without genuine application of the right processes. He acknowledged it, although in a more philosophical term than religious intonation. His was that of a wandering wonderer at the marvels of his observations, leading to the search for the underlying truth. Behind the glossy veneer of every good fortune, there seems always an untold story that tends to justify the succeeding test and briars of life.. Something in the mist always gave our trying times a glorious meaning. And so,whatever was the content of the situation, the mindset we possessed about the expected outcome overshadowed the troubles of the day.
Think about your first courage, and then the intrigues, the rethink, despair and perils you thought were permanent. You sometimes work your energy to where your mental biorhythms are unable to hold the pressures. then an innate perception of your individual uniqueness somehow keeps your faith alive; there again, more hopeful circumstances come to deepen your conviction about the future; only to wake up and things don't look same as it was yesterday. This is where you begin to see the realities for what they really are.
Even worse of, a lot of people appeal to the emotions of others in almost everything; and just when the receptions are not coming how they expect it, it becomes difficult to keep their head up. The secret is not looking at how many recommendations you will get for your hard efforts. People don't usually notice effort, they notice result.
This is the reaffirmation that everyone is busy doing their own thing; except for the party of naïve youngsters, nobody want to be left behind. The best you can do is to decide, that they'll not notice or talk about the impact of your struggles on your morale and psyche; but at least you are doing something about your problems.
The reality has always been there; you are really on your own until the day you smell your first whiff of success.. That's why, it matters not how many times you reconsidered giving up while on the push... You couldn't throw in the towel because somehow, focus kept you on course and faith sustained your objective.
Collect your itenarary statistics
At last, when you collect your itenarary statistics, with the aim of living out your dreams; you only discover the whole miles you covered; [especially that part where challenges occured more frquently], couldn't have been more neccessary for your ambitions to get a breath of life.
You have to enjoy living in the process, but what's more important is to dare to win when the time is right. At worse of it, the initial sacrifices you made may not seem exactly significant to the people around you. Somehow, don't write yourself off; it is worth every second it takes to do something, instead of people jeering at you because you did nothing about a certain thing. but it's okay... If at least you can look back and smile on how you tried..
On the other hand, while long-term trends in life may not be going exactly the way you want them to, you certainly have plenty of short-term pleasures to enjoy; especially by doing something differently today. Every minute offers an opportunity to rise, to feel free, and to indulge in things that one might normally say no to. By this, you should look at anything capable of making a unique impact, without having to struggle with it.
play the starring role
There is a great opportunity now to form an extremely powerful bond with something that should build your confidence level. You find this connection by immersing yourself in the things that you love to do the most, and that includes the ones you've had the biggest doubts.
Enjoy a spirited day in which you indulge in your heart desires. Your imagination could take you to a whole new realm in which you play the starring role. Live these fantasies. Remember that if you can dream it, you can do it, so think big. The fire inside you burns brightly. So make good use of this power before it squandered away by someone else tugging on the strings
However, while on these trying lines, your best may not always afford you the chance to be your best, you must realize that even against your will, there are dozens of impending test for your green signals; and any one of them is capable of changing the best opinion you have about yourself; this is same for the vulnerable as well as the most courageous of character. Yet same limiting factors have held the springs of our upward drive.
Parts of your life may seem like gladatorial games out of ancient Rome. The good news is that if anyone can rise above this situation and see the truth in the matter, it's you. Be careful not to be obstinate about how to resolve things. This is likely to get you deeper in a mess that you shouldn't have to deal with in the first place
That's why, if you still want to be relevant at the end of the day, you must be certain, that your temperamental weaknesses, will not let you give in to the growing pressures. Because life in itself is no bed of roses; it is mostly dependent on where you choose to set your foot on, when you come in contact with the different intrigues hanging on the noose of life.
Therefore, to ply yourself on the most instructive term; it is best to play, keeping a good eye on the value of the essence. That is, to make the most of every single moment; an important decision has to be taken. That's why to make it through the drifting course, you cannot survive by bargaining all the time, you'll definitely need an unusual doggedness.
strip away the façade
An extraordinary vision is what helps you see farther, to make crazy targets that must be achieved, and to aim beyond the illussionary smokescreens of failure. This kind of mindset will afford you with the right nod, that has helped many people find more chances of proving their strength.
Above all, harness today's powerful energy to cut to the heart of the realities; the pain, the drama, the suspense, the doubts and the competition. Be sure to strip away the façade, because it does more than commit you to something non-existent. Do not try to close yourself in; instead open yourself up to the world, and live with a good spirit, showing that you have a great deal more to offer than you've been revealing.
When you take a controlling role in the situation tugging you; you provide an environment that allows your ambition to be fed with strength and result oriented conviction. You'll find that your daily life will improve tremendously; because you communicate your needs by winning, that's the best way to communicate your strength.
Always believe their is a store of boundless energy that could help you live your moment, if you are determined to harness every chance of improvement. The result Is; you get a win-win assurance, if you genuinely want to overcome the desperate flashfloods of killjoy, and challenging lifestyles so prevalent. It emphatically reiterates same opinion all over again; that everyone has to do the needful to acquire all the viable skills of life.
the road map of mastery
However, you must realise that it can be quite a frenetic routine going through the road map of mastery, but you have to press on... There are yet more than enough reasons in life, why you need to invest your energy in gathering the pieces of every broken dream.
Therefore, looking forward to something fun like this, can make even the toughest of days far easier to handle. You'll be amazed at how much you can manage when there's an end in plain sight.
Your entire attitude will lighten with the right shot. So take the bull by the horns and create an incentive for yourself. Do something special to reward the hard work you do day after day. I should expect that perhaps, sooner than later, you'll earn the appreciation of honest critics.
feel like the pivotal player
Whether or not you willingly participate, you will certainly play a key role in the action. You need to start feeling like the pivotal player whose actions decide the fate of the game. You don't need all that stress, just close your eyes, take a deep breath and find the answer from your heart. Don't look to others for support, because they'll have their own agendas and ideas about what you should do. Only you know what is best.
This is a very imminent decision that has to be made, because when you are runt of the litter, you cannot afford to choose indifference as an option. You must learn to fight for your right early enough, otherwise you'd get swallowed up whole.
handle flaws related issues
Today all the experiences are mildly juddering, and needless to say you don't take a blind bit of notice. Even for those with the right set of objectives, it hasn't been very easy to handle flaws related issues, or to build on their strength.
Whatever was in the past stays there, you can't go back to right your inactions; Guilt is basically a useless emotion that you should get rid of as quickly as possible. Don't let this feeling keep you from opening up your heart to restore it to its original innocence.
When we truly have something that hinders us from making progress, it is the right time to look beyond the ordinary approach. Try some retrospection and re-analyse your journey so far; you will need to refresh your minutes, almost about every key circumstance. Inject some pragmatic measures where neccessary. It's on us to start a panoramic review or correcting the issue from the source; at most times, constructive self-criticism doesn't harm you either.
Create an indispensable image that can stand the test of pressures, because your output lies on how you mangage your flaws. Take corrective steps - replenishing the past with a viable attitude; at the end, it energize your spirit, so that you gain an advantage of not bowing to the shredder. Therefore when perception leads to leaning on reliable assumptions, be certain how you intend to go about handling that situation.
responsible for the aftermath
You are the only one responsible for the aftermath, even if the result comes either ways. Be adventurous, but do it with all neccessary caution, perhaps some day in your indian summer, you might thank yourself enough for the trouble!.
A man who has nothing to protect, has nothing of value. He lives like a falcon who survives by gliding on same space every single day; at sunset, it heads back to its nest, and then hope resume another round of flight with the same old motive. Changes come by way of retrospection and painful experiences.
Therefore every instructive experiences is assumed to be your class teacher. In otherwords, it's something that should teach you to do only the needeful, and to value yourself at your true worth. Be original, you have to stop waisting your time trying to be someone else.
follow pragmatic passion
Don't squander your hours in unprofitable pipedreams, try to be realistic. Learn to follow pragmatic passion, So that at the long run, you don't have to go schlepping on slippery areas of life, that you can't comfortably tune your heart to.
If you must insist, you have to keep choosing only what is right; rough on the ego, you might manage to scale through. Therefore it's needless to consider temporary challenges as key determinant factors to your growth level, it gets better by the day.
Keep the stream of schemes flowing, and always smell the unnassuming whiff of possibilties, that you can stick to an opinion that's capable of bringing out the best in you.
This message, somehow explains in honest terms, that you can still live an exceptional life by injecting power and quality in your decisions. Every line of reasoning should be designed to reset an existent challenge in our behavioral concerns.
subtle hues of personal experiences
Personally, a thousand stories put together may not capture the subtle hues of my personal experiences on a scale of words. Although, just like every other child around the block, I grew up washed over by loads of life decisions to make.
The difference is that I felt as though I was condemned to see life through the haunted lens of a young realist; because my own tug of concerns were predicated upon an unprecedented cycles of changes that marked a new phase in my life..
Amongst them were revelatory experiences, as each phase came with tough challenges that posed terrible questions on my level of confidence, as I faced each day's complexity. Just when I thought I should be poised to rise above the world I have come to know; different circumstances threw their endless adversaries at me.
Somehow I tried to suppress it, by reducing it all in a silent expression of pains. And so consequent to this, I grew up on a conception of life and experiences, that I believe would take more than supervene blessings to erase quickly; because I grew up on a notion as to what life meant, that no level of education could perhaps ever alter.
Something I could not point my fingers at was not in the picture, obviously an important point was blur somewhere within the screen, that made me to stand and look upon everything with questions.
plan to respond to these challenges
Early enough, I was exposed to events that made me self-conscious, as though the Earth stood hard as iron against me, spur to make me forever on the move, or to escape a nameless arcane seeking to overtake me.
Each time I gamely responded, but deep down I felt a knot down in my stomach. A predilection for what was real, that I believed no argument could ever deny or contradict. All this while, I could see the future staring at my guts, asking how I plan to respond to these challenges: I tried to close my eyes upon these realities, and I see nothing but a yawning seperation between who I thought I was and who God says I am.
So I developed an attitude towards life, that was to make me fight, seeing the gritty realism; it made me endure, believing something of intelligent design must have a hand about my existence, while I was seeking everything tolerant, yet critical. Indeed, I was thrown into a struggle, not to let all these dramas rob me completely of my confidence, energy and humor.
While growing up, these serpentine web of feelings made me want to drive coldly, to the heart of every question; obviously I was faced with the greatest test of my ingenuity, because each experience laid open the nature of travails I knew; undeniably, it was a wrap of something one would hope to escape in due course. I would often get astonished at how I managed to retain an indomitable resolve to be resilient through these darkly dramas I was going through.
It was about this same measure of time, that the life I had gave me an insight into the sufferings of others, as well as gravitating towards the blissful life of the billionaires, and those whose feelings were like generally having a straight-faced orgasm.
set an emotional tone
And so, as my situation grew into a symbolic puzzle of fiendish complexity; it gather to itself a confluence of hassles, helplessness, hunger-ridden days, dread and sporadic cloud of uncertainty. Consequently, my life started to set an emotional tone to my desires, and conditioned my relation to men, and taken into consideration events that had not yet happened.
But as time went on, I perceived there was something unusual within the smoke screen, it was vague, but somehow I could sense that I possessed an internal strength that was untapped, and the more efforts I inject into learning about this concealled energy piece by piece, the more difficult it became to fathom this limitless grace...
Strange as I could have myself stick to this conviction amidst the pain - I'm not just a mortal among beings, the artwork upon which I was made seems too large to photoshop. Upon seeing this uniqueness in everything, it opened ground and reasons among lesser decisions, to find love in myself above contrary opinion.
there are many roads to singularity
These instructive experiences taught me that bad experiences are not designed to last into the future. It was the age that dictated all that I've been through. This perception colored the people I preferred to meet in the future, and determined my attitude to poeple, circumstances and situations.
I discovered there are many roads to singularity, and knowing not all of them are well travelled; I believed mine is a unique one. I also found a new love - delving into philosophy and natural realism, which immediately transforming me into a connoseur of realistic and naturalistic art and fiction.
While flirting with those whirlpool of powers, that had the mystique ability to claim the whole of men's souls; this consequent shade recurled into a renewed love for talk that sought answers to the kaladeiscopic questions of life; that it always kept alive the enthralling sense of wonder and reality, in the face of human feelings hidden by the external dramas of life.
conceive the possibility of change
Although there were seperate cudgels of times I caught a few celebratory caper, but prior to this experiences; much part of my youthful life was just another form of going round and round in circles, like a snake with its tail in its mouth. I could barely point a finger as to why I got stuck in this frenzy. Somehow, I remember people who gave me up as bad job.
Whatever was happening around me was cryptic, enigmatic - perhaps an uncanny I could feel, but couldn't fathom. After long months of philosophizing on the true meaning of life, I was the more determined to wade into faith; conceiving the possibility of change. Being directly thrust in the middle of this mystery, I could only wonder where the lines of these circumstances intersect, with each new day and my future.
Somehow, I woke up with the thought that my life hasn't gone down to where I'd decide that " to hold out hope where there was non, was thoughtless..." I believed above every ordeal I have encountered, that there is no moral courtesy at considering an option to back down. Indeed, it wasn't a good time to break the rhythm, because I believed I'm on a road trudging upon a sure destination.
When I got faced with this despairing maze, I had to strongly tie a conviction about my waist, that the possible best will always come in its due time; like the sudden rebirth of a phoenix from the ashes... That was my philology of success.
It's something I believe works like a pheromone: that someday,all these fire-fighting would rise like a vapor, to make us understand, that these struggles are just phoney wars, designed to test our individual ingenuity as we chalk up the neccessary points we need to win the championship.
And so, as the spontaneous cycles of stygian clouds come and dissappear, it may attempt to pull down the faith through which our essence is realised.
faith, undying hope and hard-work
On the contrary God never abandon his best soldiers. So as the wave of ugly experiences make their way into your life, be rest assured, with faith, undying hope and hard-work, all in good time; life surely gives us more than reasons to be the last to smile.
Somewhere within the pages of our lives, prosperity, satisfaction, humor and gifts of love will be afforded those who believe in themselves, like gifts of blooming flowers, to as many who appreciate the very deepness of life, like the historic "Hellfighters of Harlem"
any party by the name "HOPELESS"
But Is there anyone destined to fail and fall flat? Well, I'm not asking for an instant answer, unless of course the answer is "NO" ..... It's one stop gap affair at these circumstances; people change and there is no end to possibilities. So, I do not know any party by the name "HOPELESS", and that informs my conviction about your own situation
. Don't be choked up, you can afford yourself a little country air, if you can, brace up to talk that situation out of your system. It is neccessary, and with two good heads together, we can patch things up. I do believe, that my little story holds a pretty good mirror of what life could look like.. Life is a journey for those who can smell the whiff of their destination, even from far away!.
build a philosophical privet
Surely, building a philosophical privet enhances a transformational spur on the straying corners of your attitude. And that's important for as many who find it attractive to have genuine life-blood in their veins.
Because it's so hard to keep one's head on the shoulder due to stress and remote reasons, a lot of us have spun a very fine web, yet the focus of every strand seems to defy our every move; only someone with a stomach of steel, and a heart of ice wouldn't feel the gouge.
Disturbed by this savaging burst of experiences, it's only wise to build on a set of trust idealistc opinion, which I believe must be carefully examined to be necceassary and inseperable part of your life objective, understanding that life is not a cheesecake.
Chapter One
LIFE FOLLOWS A PATTERN
Truly, life has been one big psychological thriller. It's one drama you can't step into its scene of making, without feeling the immense energy that comes with it. Spun by the higher laws of life, its elemental forces vie to keep change under considerable control; in it man sees himself trapped between the jaws of fast life and orderliness. The latter which requires a calm and thoughtful touch of little restraints, is in constant tug of war with natural spontaneity of the normal human life...
But to live on the sunny side of life, you must have a practical knowledge of what to do at a time, as the clouds do so often change.
Since life is not just a story, you live directly in contact with the experimental realities - every experiment is like a weapon, which must be used in a particular way...
A spear to thrust, and a club to strike, each according to fashion and need. Experimenting requires somebody who knows when to thrust, and when to strike. Sherlock Holmes was an expert in solving our everyday mysterious occurrences in life, he had clients from everywhere, each with even more queer stories about their private lives.
One strange aspect of him was that non of this cases was either too difficult to unravel. He had a connesseurs eye for details and sequence of events... Perhaps his client where always beclouded by their busy lives, that they never seem to decipher anything... So everything begins tangle itself in a spiders web. Not even the police knew so much as Sherlock Holmes, he was a private detective, with a keen mind, the stuff of legends per excellence.
From dukes to regents, princes and princess, merchants to warlords, top government functionaries to companies, from burgling to marriage issues, from dissappearance to strange behaviors, from crimes to everything; he had client swarming up to his London home from the cardinal points. But that's the problem with mortal flesh, while nature provides, time takes even the best brains away from us. If he was alive today, perhaps a lot of us would need the service of a genius like him
The Menu of Life offers many tempting dishes
Life remains the most invaluable gift handed down to us amongst the good things of this earth, but too often we manage to look at the size, without opening ourselves to the value of it's content. It's often a tale of sorrow when we do not deal with it from the instructions that came with the package.
In its complex nature, there are simple principles which can guarantee our self-actualization. This is the more reason why we must make only the neccessary changes in spite of the new rquirements of a modern life. It's so painful that most people fondle life like an unskilled labor hacking a carcass to pieces.
You'd observe that the word "care" and "skill" is not so common among a lot of people. Confusion and haste seems to buy out good reasoning, that's why a lot of us get so bankrupt with the right pattern of behavior. We need an unusual meal every day to grow, but to sustain that success, we require a good sense of the present and the future.
Countless times you have been on and off the track, and it seems like you're always falling behind the weight of pressures.
I want to assure you, that while you may have tried too often, and don't see success anywhere in sight; the menu of life offers many tempting dishes, why not try a different meal, something that can stand you out.
EMBLEM OF COMMON PEOPLE
When you are constantly jeering at people who are trying, and the same time you are prayerless and lazy, you continue to hinder your chances of making headway. The line that bears the the EMBLEM OF COMMON PEOPLE is the longest one in life, but you just have to be somewhere at a time. Our pedigree is not the most ultimate determinant of who we become. Rather, if 80 percent of the world's richest people, although now sitting on all the top of creature comforts, could trace their origin to poorest families, shouldn't that be enough reason to reject the exotic idea that, because you can't afford a meal today, ends every hope for change? It doesn't work like that! Life is neither square nor triangle, therefore perspective drawing may not give you a full picture what your life could turn out to be. It's almost impossible to say for sure, this is how the dynamics work, much of it is subject to the unknown. We can only gamble with the outcome of the future by doing something, the fact that our predictions are subject to value of the odds, keeps us trackless. As you monitor your stakes, hoping to make a hit if everything falls in place... The result is always subject to the higher laws of life. You cannot tell the end from the beginning. If you ever reach the peak, staying at the top becomes even more challenging than the initial climbing process, that's why you are neither too balanced to fall, or too flat to rise again.
don't Throw your Whole Self into the Bonfire
Although, the pressures are clearly indicting, as well as very ominous, but it only wears you out to accept the despairing fate, that you just can't help it. If you pressume, you fall by same wit. I know that most of our challenges are highly subcutaneous and tasking to surmount, but you can't give up under the pressure. There's no point staying beneath the trying line, you have to push your projections even further, because it never get stretched out. I have seen people change from nothing to something, although they did the needful, but it wasn't by their power either. It only happened because that was the shape life designed to take, even though they themselves were really presumptious of the outcome... You can only be sure of your input, not really the outcome of it.
repitition of affirmation that leads to self-belief
At same time, very strange events cause the bed of life to shake slightly to one's advantage, that's why an obstinate will is far more preferable to accepted weaknesses. And no matter how bad it is, you can't afford to throw your whole self into the bonfire... Move with the flow of reality, but configure your mindset to a level where it's optimum enough for true success to thrive. Muhammad Ali once said "it's the repitition of affirmation that leads to self-belief. And once that belief becomes a deep conviction, things begin to happen". Man's most difficult task is to conquer oneself, because of the very dynamism with which human mind works; because it is never detached from the weaknesses of the flesh. The human will is in constant tug of war with the urge for hedonistic satisfaction, that it robs itself of actual reality or the superego. Much of which is violated by our mere wishes and emotions. Therefore, to get accross these barricades, defensive errors are highly inconcievable; knowing that the flesh built for the human mind is manically vulnerable, because it requires intrepid will to let it strlke a balance. Don't let things stagnate, when it's time to take action, see how far rather than deep you can go in everything. Take a break from your usual emotional intensity (if that defines your temperament) and keep it all energetic and upbeat when things are lagging. The burden of weakness are so skin-deep, it takes more than a bleaching cream to wipe it off.
conservative misgivings
Usually, all average men are characterised by such traits as withdrawal, worry, criticism, bitterness, suspicion, revenge, wrath, doubt, superstition, inferiority, timidity, hesitancy, intolerance, clamor, gossip, sarcasm, aggression, indecision, attack, malice, sedition, resentment, hatred, unforgiveness, shyness, loneliness and cowardice. This means that the battle has to be fought within, because these band of intruders live within the confines of your habit, at same time double-speaks and lowers the objective of your very essence. In WW11, German tank drivers in Africa would drive tanks over camel poop for luck. Allies responded by planting land mines disguised as camel dung. Germans got wind of this and began riding over dung that was already overrun with tank tracks. In turn, allies made mines that looked like overrun tracks. A weak mind understand one thing "vulnerability. The weakness in itself takes a shape, unerringly seeking to break the human defences of law and courage, with the habitual strength of desires. You may approach life with conservative misgivings, but at the right circumstance, you'd be forced to admit, that you can't come not prepared. There is a particular weatherstrip that can guarantee your living condition, as quite a number of repetive circumstances point to this direction... While being wise, act accordingly. Nobody with wisdom hides his light under a bushel; such flagrant violation of the laws of nature, is enough to vanish all thoughts of sanity...... It's simply not done!.
Interest is the paramount substance
Interest is the paramount substance upon which our actions are triggered, since life in itself is a gamble, you lose or win only when you play. It perfects our casino activities, plying your interest upon the varying games at your level of confidence and knowledge. It's competitive, yet needs a considerable level of attitude to pick the lines. You must earn your keep at the earliest convinience. To horse around means to smile on every bad joke. You've got to give it everything you got, don't let time catch you napping. Because having mislaid eyes on your principle objectives, may tantamount to giving up your right to life itself.
You'd at one point shed the scales from your eyes, that all the pressures you face as a youth, are merely dress rehearsal to what lies ahead as a man. Growing up comes with a wider range of responsibility. Wait until the realities sponge down a full assault on you. Don't choose to endure; you should rather choose to conquer.
Rarely do we have anything handed to us, without having to make any effort of our own. Where power is pitted on mental strength, the journey to mastery is long and complex; you'll need sustained motivation to walk it, otherwise there's no way you can go through the hard effort. The unlimited capacity for self-deception makes it impossible ever to be totally certain about one's own feelings. We cannot always depend on other people to motivate ourselves.