User:Sroush1
Is couple selective or appointed by God?
As, it is known from the title of discussion, the aim of asking is to find a scientific and reasonable answer to marriage of young people, to build up a sustainable family, and to the opinion of the writer, a family is called sustainable that leaves positive effect behind themselves. It means their being and their disappearing is on special reason which that the being effect from him/her, can be the reason for the presence of that family . In this discussion for finding a correct answer we should consider the human being as intelligent creature which with its understand from around the environment can find the secret of being(reason/cause)and the reason for the cause which is being of God Should be considered as a guide and help, not as a cause in human being. Because human brain at the beginning of creature in its motherboard has instincts for development and if we accept that all human beings at the beginning of creature have equal motherboard. So we should search the answer for the question in the reason not in the cause. What we call cause, is the effect human beings leave behind after death. Because there are numerous humans that their names live in history like Edison ,the discoverer of light or Graham bell , the discoverer of telephone or Makhtom Qoli Fraghi (Turkemen famous poet) or any other initiative (originative)thing around us, has been the result of a family that because of ancient history ,the discovery of those objects ,their creatures have been anonymous. But the fact of their being in using them is quite tangible like shoes , which is not known in history period of human civilization ,who for the first time invented them, anyway it is not important his/her name or whether he /she has had a name or not. What is important, is that he/she has invented objects to be used by human and we use them and the future comers will use them but the model might be different, so, that device will live with us and no matter what was his/her name , whatever is important, is that their presence have been useful for human. Most of the discoveries have been done by man and this can be the reason that, man has always been obliged to provide the needs of family and this obligation has not been forced but substantive, it means is in humans nature that with the first spark of needs, the necessary tools for family discovered. And this invention can only be the result of kindness and sincere between the members of family. So we can claim that invention is the mother of necessity. But this feeling for needs is the root of kindness that can be called Essence of Love. On the other hand if there is not essence of love between spouse , that family can never leave the cause of presence of themselves. Because it is the law of nature . In nature everything being is on the essence of love and to find it out we can refer to the tin lest construction of atom to understand the creature of element(Molecule). Atom in chemistry in its nature of being is either negative or positive and if the atoms are not placed near each other they are hermaphrodite and Mr. Mandaliof all the atoms in the world that have been discovered up to now gathered in a table (schedule) that we call it alternation table of Mandaliof .In this table the atoms are either negative or positive when compound with each other change into molecules of homogenous and in this way other molecules are created. That in normal condition (circumstance), joined or grafted an change into materials and in abnormal condition they change into advanced material. So to create a molecule first their atoms should be present and then these atoms should find each other and then they should compound to create new molecule. In creation of objects and other living creatures in nature because of lack of human sense atoms compound in special arrangement that this arrangement has not changed since the coming into existence of the earth. It means if oxygen with negative (load – alloy – burden) in front of hydrogen with positive alloy certainly there will be grafted of covalency between them and molecule of water is created. But about human the coming into existence of atoms do not obey this law but by joining they are to create molecule and it means to move against the law of nature because it is necessary to make a family that atom with positive alloy (Man) and with negative alloy (woman) according to the law of nature they should find each other, means join and compound each other to be able to create molecule, but we know that few human, there are to leave behind of themselves and this amount comparing to humans are a few and limited and it means that atoms have not found each other in accordance with law of nature to compound together . But atoms in an selective way joined first it is necessary yoni join should be done so that they can compound together to make molecule and this graft in a atoms obey a specific way in which atoms have no role and compound together in an inevitable force and this graft should be between negative and positive atoms homogenously so that it leads to create molecules . And these molecules join together, for example, parents molecules with family molecule join together to make covalency joint and this graft is natural and not be selection because the result of joint is construction of molecule. Like the result of oxygen and hydrogen joint which is absolutely water and water is the reason between oxygen and hydrogen blend and the other difference of compound with joint that this compound is homogenously. But with graft of two objects of different things compound together with is a weak joint under the circumstance of apart from covalency joint , which is easily separated , so if humans like atoms can compound together because as it was described before, it is natural and not selective. But to compound they should follow the natural law and the natural law in compounding humans obey of the same method. And what separates it from other compound is its presence of feeling which can make the mind obey a special routine which is necessary to create molecule . In these bodies (male and female human) do not compound each other but this is their feeling(positive and negative yon) inside them compound each other and in this way the nuclear energy in them release and this unique feeling which is result of positive and negative yon, in every particles of two bodies lead them to create molecule because the yon have straight effect on chemical treatments of combustion , it means the constructed yon manage the combustion of atoms with leaking energy. So that there will be no changes in atoms style. To find this natural method to create a unique feeling in two different bodies first the existence of human in both physical and feeling should be studied. Scientific studies show human heart starts to beat after four month because the sound of heart can be heard and this sound make us understand that a creature is growing that this creature for growing needs in formation how to evolve and this information by almighty(God) put in brain(positive or negative atom) so that can evolve the process of changing into human and after the birth by natural instincts in his being, to meet his needs. For example, by crying he announces his hunger and also for other needs he warns or informs by announcing. At this time in the brain of baby there is nothing but what God has put and after relation among ear, Eye to brain ,brain gets its information by feelings from around itself and saves it and in this way baby learns how to live but in its existence there is no yon yet , it means it doesn’t realize the difference of being male or female but this time is limited and humans after reaching the appointed age that sometimes is changeable reach the growing age and fed this difference which is often along with signs of growth . And this feeling of thought changes him/her against the opposite gen and this feeling which is the result of opposite yon first enters the heart atom and orders the brain and begins its activity .It means to produce matosoide sperm in positive atom and voul in negative atom lead it and what is its meaning is that this feeling means positive or negative yon do not enter into the particles of human s existence , heart does not order the brain to produce the former mentioned things .To prove this natural law it is enough to answer to this theory. If assumed that a pregnant woman because of a broken ship is led to an island which is empty of humans makes a shelter to live and after a while she gives birth to a daughter and grown to reach to 12 years of age . Whether she is reached to mature gen , means her breast come up and gets ready to increase? Whether without positive atom is it possible to create negative yon in negative atom so that be able to order to increase (like growing up of breasts and inner changes in sex organs and produce of voul)? But it is better to answer this question, we notice to the condition of creating yon. We told that we assume that positive atom is man and negative atom is woman which is necessary to create a human molecule that their positive and negative yon compound and here creation of negative yon without positive atom which holds positive load, naturally it is impossible because atoms when are beside each other by losing and taking electrons first they change into yon. And yon by joining to each other, they create yoni joint and then they stay near each other and create compound and atoms in this way can covalency joint by creating joining to each other and make molecule. So atoms in accordance with scientific studies and researchers if they do not stay near each other they are hermaphrodite and as soon as they are in that special condition they get positive or negative load. So we can assume humans like atoms which until to reach the mature age they are hermaphrodite and they move around the its constructed nucleus and after they get loaded(positive and negative yon) they are determined to create molecule but they can join only by their related factor, and if this yon joining get along with their atom joint certainly they create molecule .It means to be left an everlasting work for the reality of the existence of their family. So supposing that, that girl can reach the mature age of sex is unlike the law of creation, because one of the necessary things for creation of mature age of sex is the presence of opposite sex. That after finding, only those two gens can create molecule of the same gen but we human being do not pay attention to the condition of yon joint but we are to join the atoms by unnatural way and in this way the possibility of molecule creation is zero. For there is no essence of love between atoms, so that they can compound the covalency joint . And to understand this natural formula it is necessary to refer to our unaware feeling until to reach to a point while passing from babyhood to youth by seeing the opposite sex our hearts begin to beat and give us a special feeling that we have never experienced before enter into our existence that this feeling proves the presence of an opposite sex and this feeling is constantly trying to encounter with this opposite sex so that feed us and drag us inevitably to create molecule and this mean creation of joint yon in atoms of two bodies of different human beings that like body need to be fed for growing up in a natural way so that it can create molecules and natural food of yon is desire to compound with opposite yon which has role in creation, so that if they do not compound they will not be quiet because natural desire is for evolution but we parents in this created yon in atoms present in our children which need joining do not care (for we didn’t know) and by making obstacles by conventions and traditions of human being made by our ancestor we prevent them from compounding and by an atom which has separately loaded, we try to do the joining by our method and we like this joint change into compound but this is impossible because it needs harmony to make and process atoms from beginning for compound which it takes a lot of time by itself but if after the yon joint has been prepared at that time condition is good for their compound to be together and near each other and for this factor we can make sure that the result of compound certainly will be molecule and when they will be compound if to be together and growing up near each other and for this purpose it is necessary according to the conventional method to nominate them for each other so that yon can compound each other and we can make sure that the unique yon can lead both bodies to straight way and for performing this method, it is only essential to prepare the condition to engage them with each other after recognizing creation of yon in our children and this time will be tangible for the parents and just it needs to give attention and question to appoint their pair . Because when we see the signs of mature age in the appearance of them(coming out moustache for boys with changing tune of his sound and growth breast for girls with changing tune of her sound) we should understand that our young has found its pair(sex) and he/she should reach to his/her pair and if this happens certainly molecule will be created otherwise if formation of family is based on selection (choice) or appointment from others , certainly the result will be joining of atoms with each other not compound and these kinds of grafting will not lead to their graft but without formation of molecule based on habit (tradition) which is acquired by human being will live together without feeling of searching and after death and after a while their presence will not be felt for others and their coming and going will be without reason and result and only the effects of generation will remain from them which will be disappeared during passing time, but if we let our children do sex and find pair (couple) without consideration (notice – regard) and based on natural law without observation of race , body , cultural and material, certainly they will have a happy , peaceful and permanent, stable life and this is duty of parents to produce the necessary condition for compounding of atoms together because the nuclear energy is their priority right .