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               Being an UNMARRIED GIRL in Pakistan

Being an UNMARRIED GIRL in Pakistani house is no less than a feeling of less person. If you are born a girl than you have to be strong enough to fight with the myths and new dogmas related to your Identity which is gifted by ALLAH but is answerable to Society. I being a girl have to face the CHARACTER ASSECCITION from right after when I took my first step. Identity of every girl is judged in our society either we are pious or prostitute. We live in a society where prostitute after selling her body is judge with that girl who offer prayer and cover her body according to Islam. In Pakistan, parents appear to invest less on their daughter’s education because they expect higher labor market rewards from their sons — this is due to the expected parental dependence on their sons during old age. Coming to the main topic of being UNMARRIED GIRL for a long time is not only painful for a girl but also for her whole family. In this era most of the girls want to be independent and self-righteous to live in this pity society. But they cannot live there dream life. I think girl is not burden for her family but for the society in which she is born. Mostly UNMARRIED girls hear some pathetic sentences like “she is characterless that’s why no one is taking her responsibility” or sometime girls have to bear the words like “slut” for not agreeing for marriage. The MUHALA ANTIES are more villainous than the villain in Indian Films. Aunties in Pakistani society claims that they know each and every girl of the society and those girl who go out alone to offices, collage, universities they defiantly have BOYFRIENDS or are in Physical relation. And if they argue for not marrying the one parents selected than they are for sure going to ruin the honor, and prestige of the entire family from India to Pakistan and so on. If by chance the girl who is in the age of marriage has dark or just fair complex will be taunt till death. She will be realized day and night that she has fair complex and is unaccepted in this society. The girls who are of fair complex, or are over weighted are always on the gun shot of taunts and this society tell them on daily bases like a daily living lesson that ”the reason behind your single life is that you are ugly, has fair complex or are over weighted” I being an over weighted single but independent girl who is having a good job and is earning a handsome salary has to listen on daily bases for family and other people that “No one will accept you with this weight, are you going to stay with your parents for the whole life and will you be a burned?” The males in our society are not the source of girl’s mantel torture but these Aunties are the pure material for torture. Every girl has the right to live freely in this 14th August Independent Pakistan. We girls are the part of this society and we have our own identity as we all own NATIONAL IDENTITY CARD as these male owns.