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Robert Rafsky
Born
Robert Alan Rafsky

July 22, 1945
DiedFebruary 21, 1993(1993-02-21) (aged 47)
Cause of deathHIV/AIDS
Other namesBob Rafsky
EducationHarvard College (B.A.)
Occupation(s)Writer, publicist, HIV/AIDS activist
Organization(s)ACT UP
Treatment Action Group
Known forHIV/AIDS activism
Children1
RelativesLawrence C. Rafsky (brother)

Robert Alan Rafsky (July 22, 1945 – February 21, 1993) was an American writer, publicist, and HIV/AIDS activist.

Early life and education

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Robert Alan Rafsky was born July 22, 1945, to civil servant William L. Rafsky of Łódź, Poland[1] and Selma Rafsky née Chafets in Philadelphia.[2][3] His family was politically active. Lawrence C. Rafsky was his brother.[2] He enrolled at Harvard College in the fall of 1963. Rafsky lived in Wigglesworth and volunteered at the Loeb Drama Center. He was expelled for academic reasons but was later readmitted in 1964 and later became the managing editor of The Harvard Crimson.[2][4] Rafsky graduated Harvard in 1968.[4]

Career

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Rafsky worked as a teacher after graduation, but ultimately pursued more lucrative careers.[4]

Rafsky worked in public relations in New York. He worked for the Empire State Development Corporation, Howard Rubenstein & Associates, and Pro-Media.[2]

Rafsky became involved with ACT UP in 1987 after his diagnosis with AIDS. He later became the chief spokesperson of ACT UP, assisting the organization to gain prominent national coverage. Correspondent and organizer Victor Zonana remarked that Rafsky "was articulate, contentious, persuasive, dogged and very often right."[2] David B. Feinberg called Rafsky the "heart and soul of ACT UP."[5] Rafsky was a nationally recognized HIV/AIDS activist.[6][7] His 1992 confrontation with then-presidential candidate Bill Clinton secured much publicity and made HIV/AIDS a presidential campaign issue. Rafsky said, "I can't calm down. I'm dying of AIDS while you're dying of ambition," to which Clinton eventually responded, "I feel your pain." Rafsky also helped draft an AIDS agenda for the Clinton Administration.[8] Additionally, in 1992 Rafsky delivered a speech titled "Bury Me Furiously" at the funeral of fellow ACT UP member Mark Fisher.[9] Within the speech, Rafsky demanded change and publicly denounced the Bush administration for their negligence of the AIDS epidemic. The impact of both the confrontation with Bill Clinton and "Bury Me Furiously" led to not only increased national awareness for the epidemic, but priority for policy within the Clinton administration.

Rafsky was an active member of the Treatment Action Group. Peter Staley said that Rafsky was "enormously influential" in one-to-one interactions.[2] Rafsky wrote personal essays about AIDS for The New York Times, The Village Voice, New York Daily News, OutWeek, and QW. He was writing a book comprising letters to his daughter at the time of his death.[2]

Personal life

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He was married to Babette Krolik and had a daughter named Sara. He came out in 1985 and later divorced his wife, sharing joint custody of their daughter. It was at this time that Rafsky began telling his friends he was gay.[2][4] Around 1987, he contracted AIDS.[4] He died of AIDS-related complications on February 21, 1993, at the New York University Medical Center.[3]

Legacy

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Rafsky's role with ACT UP was a focal part of the 2012 documentary How to Survive a Plague.[10]

See also

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References

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  1. ^ "William L. Rafsky -- Civil Servant, 81". The New York Times. 2001-06-29. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved 2019-01-03.
  2. ^ a b c d e f g h Mathews, Jay (February 23, 1993). "ROBERT RAFSKY, WRITER AND ACTIVIST IN AIDS FIGHT, DIES". Washington Post. Retrieved January 2, 2019.
  3. ^ a b "Paid Notice: Memorials RAFSKY, ROBERT ALAN". The New York Times. 1998-02-21. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved 2019-01-03.
  4. ^ a b c d e Mathews, Joe (March 2, 1993). "Battling AIDS: One Graduate's Story". The Harvard Crimson. Retrieved 2019-01-03.
  5. ^ Feinberg, David B. (1995-11-01). Queer and Loathing: Rants and Raves of a Raging AIDS Clone. Penguin. ISBN 9781101161715.
  6. ^ Roof, Judith; Wiegman, Robyn (1995). Who Can Speak?: Authority and Critical Identity. University of Illinois Press. ISBN 9780252064876.
  7. ^ Yingling, Thomas E.; Wiegman, Robyn (1997). AIDS and the National Body. Duke University Press. ISBN 9780822319771.
  8. ^ "Bob Rafsky; Helped Make AIDS Election Issue". Los Angeles Times. February 27, 1993. ISSN 0458-3035. Retrieved 2019-01-03.
  9. ^ Bob Rafsky's "Bury Me Furiously" speech for Mark Fisher, retrieved 2022-06-21
  10. ^ Baker, Jeff (November 30, 2016). "'How to Survive a Plague,' by David France". SFGate. Retrieved 2019-01-03.
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