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Hong Kong Kids phenomenon

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"Hong Kong Kids" or "Kong Kids" (Chinese: 港孩; pinyin: Gǎng Hái; Jyutping: Gong2 Haai4) is a derogatory term that refers to a stereotype of children or teenagers in Hong Kong who are said to be overly dependent on their families, have low emotional intelligence and lack self-management skills.[1][2] The term was coined in 2009 in a book titled Kong Kids: The Nightmares for Parents and Teachers published by the Ming Pao newspaper.[3] The stereotype is reinforced by anecdotal evidence from the media, but has no scientific literature to speak of.

Description

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The stereotypical characteristics ascribed to "Kong kids" are as follows:

  1. They are typically born during the 1990s to 2000s and belong to middle-class families.[4][5]
  2. As young children, they often lack life skills, such as bathing, cooking, and tying shoelaces. They are used to relying on their parents and foreign domestic helpers.[6][7]
  3. They have a low emotional quotient (EQ): they are self-centered, and cannot control their emotions. They are usually weak in interpersonal communication. As a result, they lack basic manners and come into conflicts easily.[8][9]
  4. When faced with difficulty, "Kong Kids" expect others to solve the problems, because they are inexperienced with managing setbacks and have low self-esteem. "Kong Kids" are said to be unwilling or unable to solve problems by themselves. Being afraid of failure, they evade adversity.[7][10][11]
  5. "Kong Kids" often love chasing new trends and pursuing well-known brands. Most of them own brand name goods and electronic gadgets such as mobile phones, iPads, iPods, and digital cameras.[11]

These characteristics are described to stem from the way they are brought up: their parents are said to be "monster parents". The "Kong kids" are pampered and spoiled by other family members,[4][5] and fail to develop autonomy due to foreign domestic servants in the house.[12][13] Additionally, the parents are said to emphasize academic results over anything else to the point that the children become "Kong kids".[14]

In the media

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In December 2010, when a snowstorm paralysed the London Heathrow Airport, many Hong Kong students who came home for holidays were stranded at the airport.[13] According to a Ming Pao article, they stayed in the banquet rooms of hotels or slept in the airport. During that period, those Hong Kong students complained continuously about the situation and that the banquet rooms were like concentration camps. At the same time, the parents strongly requested the government to assist those students. The article brands the students as "Kong kids". The article blames both the parents and the foreign domestic helpers for the behavior of the students.[13]

According to a survey by People's Daily Online in 2010, almost half of the parents who responded said that their children cannot eat, bathe or dress themselves independently and 15% of the respondents even said their children could not use the toilet independently. This survey attributed this to "Kong kids".[15]

A survey done by the Sing Tao Daily in 2010 "found that nearly 90% of parents hired foreign helpers to help their children".[12] The article states this to be a cause of the creation of "Kong kids".[12]

On 9 July 2011, a video entitled Tai Po Impolite Kong Kid Scolding Parents (大埔超級城無禮小學雞當街鬧父母) was filmed by witnesses to the incident, posted on websites like YouTube, and was reported by the media.[16][17] In the three-minute video, a young boy with his hands on his hips shouted and condemned his parents for "forcing" him to accompany them to the Tai Po supermarket. He threatened to call the police and despite a surrounding crowd, spoke foul language when his parents asked him to be quiet. A passer-by, unable to stand the child's behaviour, gave the child HK$20 so that he could take a taxi home and stop harassing his parents.

See also

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References

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  1. ^ 「港孩」：3低6不得 Archived 2016-03-03 at the Wayback Machine.Wenweipo.21 March 2011.
  2. ^ "Hong Kong Kids". Ming Pao. 11 January 2011. Archived from the original on 2 December 2013.
  3. ^ 黃明樂着，《港孩》，明窗，2009年。ISBN 9789888026623
  4. ^ a b hoikeima3 (24 July 2013). "Kong Kids Phenomenon | KiKi Ma - GE1401". Hoikeima3.wordpress.com. Archived from the original on 15 January 2022. Retrieved 18 December 2013.{{cite web}}: CS1 maint: numeric names: authors list (link)
  5. ^ a b "Helicopter Parents"? "Monster Parents"? "Free-Range Parenting?" – Part 2 – "I Am Not a Monster Parent". Lifetime Development.
  6. ^ Parry, Hazel.Hong Kong kids need to learn self-care skill. South China Morning Post. 7 May 2013.
  7. ^ a b 培養孩子自理能力的重要性. Mama Station. 11 October 2010.
  8. ^ 自理能力低情緒智商低學習能力低過度依賴外傭三低港童難搞. The Sun (Hong Kong). 2007-05-30
  9. ^ 家長溺愛港孩現象嚴重有小六生不懂綁鞋帶及洗頭. Apple Daily. 2010-07-20
  10. ^ "How helicopter parents can ruin kids' job prospects". CNN Parents. 2 July 2013. Archived from the original on 26 June 2022.
  11. ^ a b 唔識綁鞋帶 港孩堪憂.Oriental Daily. 23 May 2010.
  12. ^ a b c 家 長 聘 外 傭 礙 「 港 孩 」 獨 立 . Sing Tao. 20 August 2010
  13. ^ a b c "Hong Kong Kids 家長不成長，「港孩」如何成長？" [Hong Kong Kids: Parents not Growing Up, How will the Hong Kong Kids Grow Up]. Ming Pao. 1 January 2011. Archived from the original on 10 November 2013.
  14. ^ Exam-obsessed Hong Kong makes celebrity tutors rich Archived 2016-08-20 at the Wayback Machine. Tengri News. 31 May 2011
  15. ^ "Doting parents lead to helpless Hong Kong kids". People's Daily. 20 August 2010. Archived from the original on 21 September 2022.
  16. ^ "10歲童當街罵父母熱播 (Hot video of 10-year-old boy scolding parents)". The Sun. 12 July 2011. Archived from the original on 9 September 2019.
  17. ^ "Tai Po Impolite Kong Kid Scolding Parents' (Video)". YouTube. Archived from the original on 7 March 2023.
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