She received her BA from Columbia University and her PhD from Bar Ilan University and wrote her thesis concerning the nature of the relationship between Tumah (ritual impurity) and Niddah (a menstruant woman).[1][2][3] In 1993 she applied to Yeshiva University’s rabbinical program, RIETS[4] and never received an official response.[5] Despite this early rejection, she went on to become one of the first women known to have controversially been granted the equivalent[6] of OrthodoxSemicha (rabbinic ordination), which she received from Rabbi Dr. Aryeh Strikovsky of Tel-Aviv in 2006.[7] In 2000 she wrote a book documenting her journey and aspirations as a female rabbi entitled, Life on the Fringes: A Feminist Journey Toward Traditional Rabbinic Ordination. She subsequently left Orthodoxy and now identifies as a “post-denominational rabbi.”[8]
She advocates non-Orthodox practices such as egalitarian Tefilah and unmarried women practicing mikveh before engaging in pre-marital sex.[9]
She is the founding director of Reut: The Center for Modern Jewish Marriage, a marriage center in Jerusalem that helps couples plan a more woman-friendly ceremony and ketubah, and provides legal and financial advice, couples counseling, and a mikveh open to couples.[10]
Ner-David is currently the Director of "Shmaya": A Ritual and Educational Mikveh, and the founding director of Reut: The Center for Modern Jewish Marriage. She has also written Chanah’s Voice: A Rabbi Wrestles with Gender, Commandment, and the Women’s Rituals of Baking, Bathing, and Brightening (2013, Ben Yehudah Press). She lives on Kibbutz Hannaton in northern Israel with her husband and seven children.[11][12]
Haviva Ner-David was among the few Open Orthodox[citation needed]women rabbis to have received private ordination in the Orthodox Jewish context before the institutional change that resulted in the founding of Yeshivat Maharat. Other women in her position include Mimi Feigelson (ordained in 1994) and Dina Najman (ordained in 2006).
^The Rosh Yeshiva, Rabbi Norman Lamm is quoted as having said in reference to women’s ordination “It shakes the boundaries of tradition, and I would never allow it.” Helmreich, 1997.
^Technically her ordination does not refer to her in the official capacity of “rabbi”, however Rabbi Strikovsky is on record as having said “People who don’t know more than Haviva call themselves rabbis, but instead of making another third-grade rabbi, I made a high-class instructor, who can be an instructor to other instructors.” R’ Aryeh Strikovsky Explains Haviva Ner-David’s Certifications. He also has instructed her not to use the title of "rabbi" in places where it might arouse controversy because "the Orthodox community is not ready for it, and they’ll just laugh at you." Jewish Women International: Bringing a Woman’s Perspective to the Orthodox Rabbinate By Ruth Mason
