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Secret of love - Arslan Sultan " Love is indeed a deep mystery, as Rajneesh Osho mentioned in his book "Entering the Realm of Mystery." While spirituality requires you to become childlike and experience it, falling in love makes you lose yourself, often without even realizing it. There are two states here: either you're consumed by anger, not knowing what you're doing or saying, but this state may last only for a while or, I'd say, a few hours at most, after which your anger subsides. Regardless of how angry you may be, you won't be able to control yourself. This is my experience. The other state is when you find yourself in a situation without anger or arrogance, where you have no control over yourself. You can enter this state when you fall in love. This is the mystery of love. However, that love should also be mysterious enough that once you fall in love, you're in it for good, not wanting to come out. This is a situation where you have control over the person you love. You might wonder how to find relief from this, but there's no way out. It's not like that. After a while, you'll gradually realize that you're not thinking about them as much. And there will come a time when, according to my experience, whether you believe it or not, you won't be as enthusiastic about the person you once loved or still love today. Your life will become quite peaceful, and you'll feel that love still exists, but you won't feel the same excitement as you did initially.



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  1. The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman – This book delves into the concept of love languages, explaining how understanding and speaking your partner's love language can strengthen your relationship.
  2. "The Science of Love" – This article explores the neurological and psychological aspects of love, shedding light on why we fall in love and what keeps us bonded. Link
  3. "The Psychology of Love: 7 Stages of Love" – This article breaks down the different stages of love according to psychology, from infatuation to commitment, providing insights into each phase. Link
  4. "The Secrets to a Happy Relationship" – This article discusses the key factors that contribute to a successful and fulfilling romantic relationship, including communication, trust, and intimacy. Link
  5. "Love and Attachment Theory" – This academic article explores attachment theory and its implications for romantic relationships, highlighting the importance of attachment styles in shaping our love lives. Link