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Dear Ex
Film poster
Traditional Chinese誰先愛上他的
Simplified Chinese谁先爱上他的
Hanyu PinyinShéi Xiān Ài Shàng Tā De
Directed by
  • Mag Hsu
  • Hsu Chih-yen
Screenplay by
  • Lu Shih-yuan
  • Mag Hsu
Produced byLu Shih-yuan
Starring
CinematographyLin Chih-peng
Edited byLei Chen-ching
Music byDJ Didilong
Production
companies
  • Dear Studio
  • Comic Communication Studio
  • Ocean Entertainment
  • Hervoice Concept
Distributed by
Release dates
  • 22 April 2018 (2018-04-22) (FEFF)
  • 2 November 2018 (2018-11-02) (Taiwan)
Running time
99 minutes
CountryTaiwan
LanguageMandarin
BudgetNT$35 million[1]
Box officeNT$65 million[2]

Dear Ex (Chinese: 誰先愛上他的; lit. 'Who Fell in Love with Him First?') is a 2018 Taiwanese drama film directed by Mag Hsu and Hsu Chih-yen, from a screenplay by Lu Shih-yuan and Mag Hsu. It stars Roy Chiu, Hsieh Ying-xuan, Spark Chen, and Joseph Huang. It follows a teenager becoming trapped in the middle of a bitter feud between his willful mother and a free-spirited man, who is both the lover and insurance beneficiary of his recently deceased father.

The film had its world premiere at the 20th Far East Film Festival on 22 April 2018, and was theatrically released in Taiwan on 2 November 2018, by Warner Bros. It received generally positive reviews from critics and was selected as the Taiwanese entry for the Best International Feature Film at the 92nd Academy Awards, but it was not nominated.[3][4][5][6] At the 55th Golden Horse Awards, it earned eight nominations, including Best Feature Film and Best Leading Actor (for Chiu), and won in three categories: Best Leading Actress (for Hsieh), Best Original Film Song (for "Bali Song"), and Best Film Editing. The film also won Best Narrative Feature, Best Actor (for Chiu), Best Actress (for Hsieh), and the Press Award at the 20th Taipei Film Awards.

Plot

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When San-lian's ex-husband, Zheng-yuan, passes away, she discovers he has altered his insurance policy, cutting out their son in favour of his male lover, Jay. Outraged, San-lian and her son, Cheng-xi, arrive at Jay’s apartment and demand that he return the money to her, but Jay refuses to oblige.

Cheng-xi does not get on very well with his mother and believes that she only cares about the insurance money. He also frequently visits a therapist at school to talk about his family. After his mother throws away his dad’s memorabilia and they get into a heated argument, he runs away and unexpectedly moves into Jay's apartment, and Jay has to reluctantly look after him. He follows Jay around during the day, and Jay begrudgingly shows him his work as a theatre director. It is revealed in flashbacks how Jay and San-lian's ex-husband, Zheng-yuan became lovers when they worked together in the theatre but Zheng-yuan ultimately decided to hide his sexuality and pursue a relationship with San-lian to have a family. However, after he became ill, he left his family and spent his remaining time living with Jay before he passed away.

San-lian continues to visit her son Cheng-xi at Jay’s apartment to get him to go back to her house. During one visit, she bumps into Jay’s mother who does not know that he is gay. She enters Jay’s theatre during rehearsals and blackmails him to give her the insurance money or else she will reveal the truth to his mother. She ultimately tells his mother anyway.

Jay is ambushed by a group of men, who break his leg. Cheng-xi finds him and tells his mother, who helps rush him to the hospital. It is revealed that Jay had previously borrowed money from loan sharks to get Zheng-yuan a liver transplant, which ultimately did not work. Despite his injury, Jay needs to attend his opening act at the theatre and the three rush back to the theatre, where San-lian and Cheng-xi watch Jay’s play. After the performance, Jay’s mother appears and presents Jay with flowers, seeming to have accepted her son and they tearfully embrace. Later, San-lian allows Jay to keep the insurance money and Cheng-xi moves back in with his mother.

Cast

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  • Roy Chiu as Jay
  • Hsieh Ying-xuan as Liu San-lian
  • Spark Chen as Song Zheng-yuan
  • Joseph Huang as Song Cheng-xi
  • Wanfang as Consultant
  • Allen Kao as Jay's mother
  • Yang Li-yin as San-lian's sister
  • Liang Cheng-chun as Stage manager
  • Wu Ting-chien as Director

In addition, Chung Hsin-ling, who was originally cast as San-lian's sister, made a voice cameo as a radio host.[7]

Production

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Screenwriter Mag Hsu and music video director Hsu Chih-yen both made their respective feature directorial debuts on Dear Ex.[8] The screenplay, written by Lu Shih-yuan and Mag Hsu, was based on the true story of a friend of Hsu's who found out that her husband was having an affair with a guy.[2]

Mag Hsu said about the film in a 2019 interview: "I truly believe that Dear Ex is not only an LGBT film; it involves more, all kinds of communities, a range of perspectives. This is why I feel that this film doesn't need to be labeled an LGBT film."[2]

Release

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Dear Ex had its world premiere at the 20th Far East Film Festival on 22 April 2018, where audiences praised its heartfelt storyline and snappy graphics.[8] It was screened as the opening film of the 22nd Toronto Reel Asian International Film Festival on 8 November 2018, marking the first time the annual event has opened with a Taiwanese production.[9] The film was released in Taiwan on 12 November 2018, and on Netflix worldwide on 1 February 2019.[10][11]

Reception

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Critical response

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On the review aggregator website Rotten Tomatoes, 90% of 10 critics' reviews are positive, with an average rating of 6.5/10.[12]

Karen Han of The New York Times called Dear Ex "a remarkably affecting and cogent picture" and remarked, "At points, the film threatens to tip over into melodrama, but the directors Mag Hsu and Hsu Chih-yen always right the ship, balancing oversaturated flashbacks with a nuanced portrait of love that endures both trials and time."[13] Andrew Lapin of NPR opined, "The film may pale in comparison to The Cakemaker, which told its story with more nuance and sensory detail. But Dear Ex's narrative hiccups and tonal missteps seem less blaring by the time it enters its affecting homestretch […]. Love in this movie is expressed in odd ways, but it is still genuine."[14] Wendy Ide of Screen Daily wrote, "This comic melodrama wrings every last drop of drama from the set up" and "The music choices and the production design compete for knowing kitsch, but there is nothing ironic about the emotional impact of the third act."[15] Joel Keller of Decider stated, "Dear Ex has good performances and a story that should be relatable to anyone who has gone through family problems as a kid."[16] Stephen McCarty of the South China Morning Post commented, "Dear Ex proves to be a work of redemption, reconciliation and forgiveness […]. And at its heart, it's a love story: nothing odd about that."[17]

Accolades

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Award Category Recipients Result
3rd International Film Festival & Awards Macao Best Film Dear Ex Nominated
Mi Ying Spirit Movie Award Nominated
20th Taipei Film Awards Best Feature Film Won
Best Leading Actor Roy Chiu Won
Best Leading Actress Hsieh Ying-xuan Won
Press Award Dear Ex Won
55th Golden Horse Awards Best Feature Film Nominated
Best Leading Actor Roy Chiu Nominated
Best Leading Actress Hsieh Ying-xuan Won
Best New Performer Joseph Huang Nominated
Best New Director Mag Hsu and Hsu Chih-yen Nominated
Best Original Screenplay Lu Shih-yuan and Mag Hsu Nominated
Best Original Film Song Lee Ying-hung (Bali Song) Won
Best Film Editing Lei Cheng-ching Won
10th To Ten Chinese Films Festival Outstanding Film Dear Ex Won
Best Leading Actor Roy Chiu Nominated
Best Leading Actress Hsieh Ying-xuan Nominated
19th Chinese Film Media Awards Best Leading Actor Roy Chiu Nominated
Best Leading Actress Hsieh Ying-xuan Nominated
Best New Director Mag Hsu and Hsu Chih-yen Nominated

See also

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References

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  1. ^ Fu, Yi-wen (28 November 2018). "《誰先愛上他的》訪問：你看到的都是垃圾桶裏撿回來的鏡頭". Initium Media (in Chinese). Archived from the original on 3 December 2023. Retrieved 2 March 2024.
  2. ^ a b c Hsu, Mag (25 October 2019). ""This Film Is Blessed by the Gods": Talking with Mag Hsu, Director of Dear Ex (Netflix, 2018)". Bright Lights Film Journal (Interview). Interviewed by Christopher Brown. Retrieved 5 March 2024.
  3. ^ Strong, Matthew (12 September 2019). "Taiwan sends gay-themed comedy 'Dear Ex' to Oscars". Taiwan News. Archived from the original on 16 June 2023. Retrieved 2 March 2024.
  4. ^ Davis, Rebecca (12 September 2019). "Taiwan Submits Golden Horse Award Winner 'Dear Ex' to Oscar Race". Variety. Archived from the original on 16 June 2023. Retrieved 2 March 2024.
  5. ^ Tartaglione, Nancy (13 September 2019). "Oscars: Mexico Selects 'The Chambermaid', Taiwan Opts For 'Dear Ex' In International Feature Race". Deadline Hollywood. Archived from the original on 16 June 2023. Retrieved 2 March 2024.
  6. ^ Chu, Karen (15 September 2019). "Oscars: Taiwan Selects 'Dear Ex' for International Feature Film Category". The Hollywood Reporter. Archived from the original on 16 June 2023. Retrieved 2 March 2024.
  7. ^ 潘鈺楨 (31 August 2018). "《誰先愛上他的》鞏固票房 徐譽庭找「吉祥物」拍片" (in Chinese). China Times. Retrieved 30 August 2024.
  8. ^ a b Lim, Paige (10 May 2018). "All is fair in love and war". Taipei Times. Archived from the original on 20 February 2020. Retrieved 5 March 2024.
  9. ^ "Award-winning Taiwan drama opens Toronto Asian film festival". Taiwan Today. 9 November 2018. Retrieved 9 March 2024.
  10. ^ Frater, Patrick (23 January 2019). "Netflix Buys Taiwan Black Comedy 'Dear Ex'". Variety. Archived from the original on 29 March 2023. Retrieved 9 March 2024.
  11. ^ Brzeski, Patrick (24 January 2019). "Netflix Picks Up Taiwanese Sleeper Hit 'Dear Ex'". The Hollywood Reporter. Archived from the original on 26 November 2022. Retrieved 9 March 2024.
  12. ^ "Dear Ex". Rotten Tomatoes. Fandango Media. Archived from the original on 9 August 2022. Retrieved 3 March 2024. Edit this at Wikidata
  13. ^ Han, Karen (6 February 2019). "'Dear Ex' Review: Heartbreaking and Heartwarming Family Dysfunction". The New York Times. Archived from the original on 13 October 2023. Retrieved 3 March 2024.
  14. ^ Lapin, Andrew (2 February 2019). "'Dear Ex': A Man Dies, Leaving Behind A Wife, A Son And A Secret Gay Lover". NPR. Archived from the original on 22 September 2022. Retrieved 3 March 2024.
  15. ^ Ide, Wendy (10 December 2018). "'Dear Ex': Macao Review". Screen Daily. Archived from the original on 29 October 2020. Retrieved 3 March 2024.
  16. ^ Keller, Joel (11 February 2019). "Stream It Or Skip It: 'Dear Ex' On Netflix, Where A Teen Gets To Know His Late Father's True Love". Decider. Archived from the original on 1 October 2022. Retrieved 3 March 2024.
  17. ^ McCarty, Stephen (17 February 2019). "Dear Ex on Netflix – award-winning Mandarin-language film explores family values in Taiwan". South China Morning Post. Archived from the original on 7 December 2022. Retrieved 3 March 2024.

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