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A tradwife (a neologism for traditional wife or traditional housewife)[1][2][3] is a woman who believes in and practices traditional gender roles and marriages. Some may choose to take a homemaking role within their marriage,[2] and others leave their careers to focus on meeting their family's needs in the home.[2][4]

According to Google Trends, online searches of the term tradwife began to rise in popularity around mid-2018 and reached high levels during the early 2020s.[5] The traditional housewife aesthetic has since spread throughout the Internet in part through social media featuring women extolling the virtues of behaving as the ideal woman.[6][7]

Tradwife aesthetic

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A Frigidaire refrigerator advertisement from The Ladies' Home Journal represents the lifestyle idealized by many tradwives

The tradwife subculture is based on advocating for traditional values, and, in particular, a 'traditional' view of wives as mothers and homemakers.[8][9]

Tradwives are diverse demographically, and may have a variety of cultural inspirations.[10] Influences on trend range from 1950s-era American culture, Christian religious values, conservative politics, choice feminism, and neopaganism.[8][11][10]

The aesthetic tends to be soft, gauzy, or other feminine.[8]

One key aspect of appearing to be a tradwives is reclaiming – or at least appearing to reclaim – some leisure time, as women, and especially mothers,[10] who earn an income often have a double burden.[12][13]

Consumer choices

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The tradwife aesthetic tends to glamorize a retro aesthetic from white suburbia in the 1950s.[10] She may wear a dress, an apron, and high heels.[7] Her house may be decorated in trendy pastel colors.[7] The tradwife aesthetic has a significant influence on home decorating.[8]

Others may prefer a back to nature appearance.[8]

Practices

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See also: Traditionalist Catholicism

Key to the tradwife identity is being a stay-at-home wife or a stay-at-home mother and the various activities involved in managing the household such as cooking, cleaning, managing laundry, and tending to vegetables.[8] Additionally, special attention is paid to the importance of raising children.[13]

A report in America magazine, a Catholic publication, has also reported that some Catholic tradwives have adopted the practice of wearing veils at mass: a practice embraced by some Catholic women as a means of reverence and empowerment.[14]

One suggested reason for the criticism of tradwives is that they are reviled for appearing to truly live out an idealized home life in practice, when most social media users only achieve the superficial appearance, e.g., through a decision to wear a retro dress or to buy a trendy kitchen item.[7]

Finances

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Some women who identify as tradwives prefer a division of labor wherein their husband manages family finances more broadly while they focus on managing food and household consumables.[15][16] A high-profile example of this is Canadian Cynthia Loewen, a former Miss Earth Canada, who abandoned plans to pursue a medical degree in order to be a full-time housewife.[17] She stated that she finds fulfillment from the arrangement of her husband as the breadwinner and her in charge of the home, and that she is "more happy as a result".[17]

However, many of the tradwife internet celebrities earn an income outside the home, in addition to running their influencer businesses on social media.[7] For example, Hannah Neeleman runs food-related businesses with her husband, and Nara Smith is a professional model.[7]

Demographics

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Racial balance

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Commentators have noted that "there is more class than racial diversity in tradwifery, though the content is not as white as one might assume".[10]

Among men seeking traditional wives, East Asian and Southeast Asian women are considered the ideal.[18] There is a shared cultural notion among White American men that Asian women make better wives, because they are perceived as being more feminine, submissive, and exotic-looking.[19]

While most tradwives are white, a growing number of Black women are embracing the concept of traditional marriage, not explicitly using the tradwife neologism, but instead framing their identity within a "submissive" or "Biblical" marriage. These Black women claim that "traditional marriage is the key to liberation from being overworked, economic insecurity, and the stress of trying to survive in a world hostile to our survival and existence".[20] This perspective has been criticized as lacking awareness of broader structural and social issues in American-style capitalism.[20]

Political orientation

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Critics often stipulate that tradwives embody what has been described as "toxic femininity", or internalized sexism.[21][22][23][24] Critics claim this is a tactic used by male alt-right adherents to recruit more women to far-right causes.[6]

Despite the link to extreme right-wing ideologies, not all tradwives endorse extreme ideas and ideology is not an integral part of the subculture.[8] Prominent British tradwife influencer Alena Pettitt posted on social media in 2020 that she was "dumbfounded" by the media's "smear campaign" against tradwives, arguing they were all being unfairly linked to extremism.[8]

Charles Sturt University academic Kristy Campion, who studies extremism, has researched tradwives and says that people should avoid "denouncing all tradwives as far-right extremists, holding them accountable for views they may not hold and demonising what is, for many women, an extremely personal choice".[8]

Seyward Darby discussed the tradwife aesthetic in her 2020 book, Sisters in Hate: American Women and White Extremism, and shared interviews with women who call themselves traditional.[25] She found that some women in the movement espoused tenets of the American political far right, including white supremacy, antisemitism, populism, and other ultraconservative beliefs.[25] Other researchers have identified a wide range of political views among tradwives which, while primarily conservative, range from the moderate to the extreme.[11]

Relationship with feminism

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The tradwife culture has a complicated relationship with feminism, being at times criticized or supported by feminists.

While some who follow the tradwife aesthetic suggest that it is a rejection of feminism in favor of a return to simpler times and family systems,[2] journalist Wendy Squires supports women's right to be a tradwife and describes the ability to choose as a feminist success.[13] She rebuked critics saying:[13]

"The last thing we need as women is for some of us to feel superior and judgmental of others. Putting women down is the patriarchy's job, not feminism's."

On the other hand, tradwives are underpinned by a shared right-wing belief systems to varying degrees. For many, this entails a rejection of mainstream feminist histories and theories.[26] Anti-feminist tradwives view the first, second, and third waves of feminism as oppressive, and as a rejection of traditional femininity, womanhood, and motherhood. The fourth wave of feminism, which highlights empowerment, internet advocacy, and movements such as the metoo movement, is perceived by many far-right-leaning tradwives as a man-hating ideology.[26] Terms such as "toxic femininity" have been reclaimed as an antifeminist statement, on the premise that feminism promotes a culture of hating men.[27]

Some Christian conservative women and tradwives oppose forms of feminism as they believe it contradicts the Bible verse 1 Corinthians 11:3 which states that "the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God".[28]

Social media

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The tradwife movement is a social media-based subculture.[26] Multiple platforms, notably TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube, are used to commodify and spread the conservative ideologies underpinning the movement.[26] Platforms such as Reddit and 4chan are also used to promote embracing traditionally biological relationships, namely between a man and a woman.[26] Influencer marketing strategies, the showcasing of private lives, and contemporary social media use promote the commercialisation of traditional heteronormativity and gendered relationships.[26]

According to algorithmic research conducted by Media Matters, the tradwife audience is likely also viewing conspiracy theory videos, as recommendations for conspiracy videos increase concordant with tradwife viewership.[29]

The rising success of contemporary tradwives is driven by clever and active use of social media and persistent positioning as online influencers. Videos such as 'a day in my life' showcasing activities such as cooking from scratch, cleaning, caring for children, packing the lunches of their working husbands advocate for gender roles wherein the man holds social and political power, and women for the most part are confined to the home as a wife and mother.[30]

Tradwives are leading large-scale platforms encouraging traditional forms of dating, wherein the man pays and is the dominant group in culture and society.[31][page needed]

See also

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References

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  1. ^ Malvern, Jack (January 25, 2020). "'Tradwife' is there to serve". The Times. Archived from the original on March 13, 2022. Retrieved June 1, 2021.
  2. ^ a b c d Rob Brown (January 17, 2020). "'Submitting to my husband like it's 1959': Why I became a #TradWife". BBC News. Archived from the original on January 17, 2020. Retrieved January 17, 2020. ... growing movement of women who promote ultra-traditional gender roles ... images of cooked dinners and freshly-baked cakes with captions ... A woman's place is in the home ... Trying to be a man is a waste of a woman ... particularly controversial because of its associations with the far right....
  3. ^ Norris, Sian (May 31, 2023). "Frilly dresses and white supremacy: welcome to the weird, frightening world of 'trad wives'". The Guardian. ISSN 0261-3077. Archived from the original on May 31, 2023. Retrieved May 31, 2023.
  4. ^ Leidig, Eviane (September 19, 2023). The Women of the Far Right: Social Media Influencers and Online Radicalization. Columbia University Press. p. 50. ISBN 978-0-231-55830-3.
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  6. ^ a b Annie Kelly (June 1, 2018). "OPINION: The Housewives of White Supremacy". The New York Times. Archived from the original on January 22, 2020. Retrieved January 17, 2020. ...Enter the tradwives. Over the past few years, dozens of YouTube and social media accounts have sprung up showcasing soft-spoken young white women who extol the virtues of staying at home, submitting to male leadership and bearing lots of children — being "traditional wives." ...
  7. ^ a b c d e f Wang, Amy X. (August 20, 2024). "Who's Afraid of the Big, Bad Tradwife?". The New York Times. Why women who dress up as 1950s homemakers are driving the internet insane.
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  14. ^ Simcha Fisher (December 3, 2019). "The types of women who veil at Mass". America magazine. Archived from the original on December 30, 2019. Retrieved January 17, 2020. ...Then came the tradwives, who veil with a vengeance. These young Catholic women are highly active on social media, and they gleefully tout their physical beauty as a poke in the eye of feminism. ... a woman's job to please her man with a fit body, on point makeup and lustrous hair that gleams as brightly as the lacy veil that covers it....
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  16. ^ "'Tradwife' woman claims wives should submit to their husband and spend days cooking and cleaning: A mum has revealed that she left her high flying job to join the 'Tradwife' movement". Heart 96-107. January 22, 2020. Archived from the original on February 14, 2022. Retrieved February 13, 2022. ...She added that she felt alienated growing up in the 90s, where attitudes to male and female roles were becoming more liberal, saying: "The culture at the time was anything but what I enjoyed and it definitely made me feel like an outsider. "It was all kind of, let's fight the boys and go out and be independent and break glass ceilings. But I just felt like I was born to be a mother and a wife. "What I really related to where the old shows of the 1950s and 60s."...
  17. ^ a b Cliff, Martha (June 9, 2021). "Canadian woman quits medical career to become a 'Tradwife': This Canadian woman spends all day at home cleaning and lets her husband 'lead' – insisting she is more happy as a result". news.com.au. Archived from the original on February 14, 2022. Retrieved February 13, 2022. ....A woman who trained to be a doctor has revealed why she chucked it all in to become a homemaker. Former Miss Canada, Cynthia Loewen, had been set for a high-flying career in medicine but just a few years ago she decided to leave it all behind....
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  21. ^ Freeman, Hadley (January 20, 2020). "'Tradwives': the new trend for submissive women has a dark heart and history: A certain kind of housewife has found social media and is airing the details of their fight with feminism. But maybe they should tone it down a notch". The Guardian. Archived from the original on February 14, 2022. Retrieved February 13, 2022. ...But this isn't actually about fighting the system: this is about women fighting against their own insecurities about their lives. ... it is very much part of the "alt-right" movement.
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  24. ^ Jones, Sarah, October 28, 2020, New York Magazine, Trump's Base Isn't Housewives, It's Tradwives Archived January 3, 2022, at the Wayback Machine, Retrieved January 2, 2022, "...The tradwife is going to stick with Trump and the Republican Party. ..."
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Further reading

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