Back-seat driver
A backseat driver (also spelled back-seat driver) is a passenger in a vehicle who is not controlling the vehicle but who excessively comments on the driver's actions and decisions in an attempt to control the vehicle.[1] A backseat driver may be uncomfortable with the skills of the driver, feel out of control since they are not driving the vehicle, or want to tutor the driver while they are at the wheel. Many comment on the speed of the vehicle, or give alternative directions.[2]
Some backseat drivers exhibit this type of behavior simply because they feel the driver is taking risks they would not normally take, while others may have other reasons to be nervous, such as when the driver has a poor driving record.[3] A survey of 2,000 British drivers in early 2018 found that 70% motorists found backseat driving an annoying habit and that life partners were those most likely to interfere. Although only 21% of motorists admitted to backseat driving, half said they have been in arguments due to interfering comments, and five percent admitted to accidentally jumping a red light during an argument with a backseat driver.[4]
Use of the term extends beyond the literal and into the figurative; a "backseat driver" is someone who offers unsolicited advice, directions, or help in a situation where someone else is doing something.
Examples in context
[edit]The term has been used for technology, such as devices installed in a car which observe the driving through electronic means, and inform the driver or a third party.[5]
The Maine Department of Transportation[6] has a web poster "Are you a Good Back Seat Driver?" asking "True or False: Being a Backseat Driver means it is okay to be noisy or distracting to the driver as long as you are giving them safety tips." The Inland Register[7] produced by the Roman Catholic Diocese of Spokane makes use of it in a sermon: "Even our phrase 'back-seat driver' reflects this new-found freedom. Which of us who has graduated to the status of driver enjoys a passenger, especially one out of reach in the back seat, who seems to know how to drive better than we do?"
The Art of being a Backseat Driver[8] in the San Bernardino County Sun summarizes various comments of the sort otherwise found in multiple blogs. Some are specialized, such as the Back Seat Driving blog,[9] formerly the "LA Car Blog".
Related idioms
[edit]Armchair quarterback refers to a sports fan who thinks that they know better than the players themselves and are always eager to shout advice, whether live at the game or, more commonly, sitting at home in a chair (hence "armchair").[citation needed] Similarly, the phrase armchair general is used to refer to somebody who is not in the military but thinks that they know better than the generals who plan military operations. This term can be used in many of the same situations as backseat driver. In Italy, the term umarell refers to men of retirement age who pass time watching roadworks, offering unwanted advice, similar to a "sidewalk superintendent" in English.
References
[edit]- ^ "Backseat driver - Merriam-Webster Online". Merriam-Webster. Retrieved 31 January 2014.
- ^ Eisenstein, Paul (9 June 2013). "Who's the Worst Backseat Driver?". CNBC. Retrieved 2 February 2014.
- ^ "How to Cure Your Inner "Back Seat Driver"". myNationwide. December 2013. Retrieved 31 January 2014.
- ^ Elsworthy, Emma (6 June, 2018). All the signs you're a back-seat driver, according to study. The Independent.
- ^ Eisenberg, Anne (February 4, 2007). "These Back Seat Drivers Are Moving Up Front". The New York Times. Retrieved 2 February 2014.
- ^ "Archived copy" (PDF). Archived from the original (PDF) on 2006-11-07. Retrieved 2007-04-07.
{{cite web}}: CS1 maint: archived copy as title (link) - ^ "Administrative Division: Inland Register". Archived from the original on 2007-06-25. Retrieved 2007-04-07.
- ^ "San Bernardino County Sun - Perfecting the art of being a backseat driver". Archived from the original on 2006-10-17. Retrieved 2007-04-07.
- ^ "Home - LA Car". www.lacar.com. Archived from the original on 2007-09-28. Retrieved 2007-04-07.
External links
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The dictionary definition of back-seat driver at Wiktionary
